Book one of the core-needs series, hand-bound and mailed with 15 printed companion tools.
Most of us were taught to ask what happened. Missing Pieces asks what was missing, and shows you how five core emotional needs (safety, connection, autonomy, esteem, and trust) explain the hurts no one ever explained to you. This bundle is the first book in the core-needs series, hand-bound and mailed with every companion tool printed and ready to write on. Map your life, measure what you needed then and now, grieve what can't be given back, stop the bleeding in the present, and start meeting your needs on purpose. Not sure where to begin? Open Where Do I Start Healing? first. It walks you through the tools in the order they actually help.
Mailed in a discreet envelope with discreet book covers that do not give away what the materials are about, for those would do not wish to share due to the sensitive nature of the topic.
What's inside
Missing Pieces, the book: hand-bound, 112 pages
Decision maps: Where Do I Start Healing? · What Was Missing?
Map and measure: Life Stages Timeline · The Ruler Set (including My Rulers Now)
Grieve and protect: Grieving the Closed Windows · Stop the Bleeding
Meet the need: The Reparenting Menu
Need trackers: Safety: Body Signal Log · Connection: Reciprocity Tracker · Autonomy: 30 Days of Small Choices · Esteem: Inner Critic Log · Trust: Experiment Log
Take it further: The Parents' Edition · Bringing Your Work to Therapy · Book Club & Discussion Guide
Digitally available to download via QR code: the Life Inventory spreadsheet (Excel, Google Sheets, or Numbers) and The Journal, a 31-day digital journal for GoodNotes, Notability, and other PDF apps (or to print)
Format: Hand-bound book · 4.25 × 5.5 in · saddle stitch · 112 pages + 15 printed tools · US Letter · 86 pages + 2 digital extras, emailed
Shipping: Included · USPS Ground Advantage · US only
Sending it as a gift? Check ‘This is a gift’ when you add it to your cart, then enter their address as the shipping address at checkout.
Before you gift this:
This book works best as an invitation, not an intervention. Send it to someone you already have a good relationship with: someone who trusts you, who’s talked with you about this kind of thing before, or who’s told you they’re ready to look at their own story.
Please don’t send it to someone you’re hoping to fix. If they’re in the middle of a conflict with you, or you’ve been waiting for them to “finally get it,” they’ll probably read it as a message, not a gift. And no one heals because someone else decided they needed to.
If you’re not sure, read it yourself first. That’s usually where this work starts anyway.
Book one of the core-needs series, hand-bound and mailed with 15 printed companion tools.
Most of us were taught to ask what happened. Missing Pieces asks what was missing, and shows you how five core emotional needs (safety, connection, autonomy, esteem, and trust) explain the hurts no one ever explained to you. This bundle is the first book in the core-needs series, hand-bound and mailed with every companion tool printed and ready to write on. Map your life, measure what you needed then and now, grieve what can't be given back, stop the bleeding in the present, and start meeting your needs on purpose. Not sure where to begin? Open Where Do I Start Healing? first. It walks you through the tools in the order they actually help.
Mailed in a discreet envelope with discreet book covers that do not give away what the materials are about, for those would do not wish to share due to the sensitive nature of the topic.
What's inside
Missing Pieces, the book: hand-bound, 112 pages
Decision maps: Where Do I Start Healing? · What Was Missing?
Map and measure: Life Stages Timeline · The Ruler Set (including My Rulers Now)
Grieve and protect: Grieving the Closed Windows · Stop the Bleeding
Meet the need: The Reparenting Menu
Need trackers: Safety: Body Signal Log · Connection: Reciprocity Tracker · Autonomy: 30 Days of Small Choices · Esteem: Inner Critic Log · Trust: Experiment Log
Take it further: The Parents' Edition · Bringing Your Work to Therapy · Book Club & Discussion Guide
Digitally available to download via QR code: the Life Inventory spreadsheet (Excel, Google Sheets, or Numbers) and The Journal, a 31-day digital journal for GoodNotes, Notability, and other PDF apps (or to print)
Format: Hand-bound book · 4.25 × 5.5 in · saddle stitch · 112 pages + 15 printed tools · US Letter · 86 pages + 2 digital extras, emailed
Shipping: Included · USPS Ground Advantage · US only
Sending it as a gift? Check ‘This is a gift’ when you add it to your cart, then enter their address as the shipping address at checkout.
Before you gift this:
This book works best as an invitation, not an intervention. Send it to someone you already have a good relationship with: someone who trusts you, who’s talked with you about this kind of thing before, or who’s told you they’re ready to look at their own story.
Please don’t send it to someone you’re hoping to fix. If they’re in the middle of a conflict with you, or you’ve been waiting for them to “finally get it,” they’ll probably read it as a message, not a gift. And no one heals because someone else decided they needed to.
If you’re not sure, read it yourself first. That’s usually where this work starts anyway.
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